For some people, wearing lingerie is a nightly occurrence and some women never wear it or have even thought about wearing it. For most of use, we wear it on special occasions or every once and a while.
 
On a regular night, you might catch a woman wearing a long shirt with panties on or some boxers and a t-shirt. But, you will be surprised to find out that the second most popular thing to wear to bed is nothing! And although wearing nothing is certainly sexy to most guys, wearing lingerie is more alluring.

So Why Don’t Most Women Wear Lingerie Often

There are a few reasons why women only choose to wear lingerie sporadically. The biggest reason is usually the time investment. First, you have to pick out the lingerie. Depending on whom you are, this could be quick or take quite some time. After you are done wearing it, you have to wash it. Now, lingerie is not one of those items you can just stick in the washer with the rest of your clothes. It requires delicate cleaning, often times by hand. I don’t know about you, but washing garments by hand is not usually the quickest thing to do or the most fun.

One way to ease up on the time is to purchase lingerie online. Purchasing lingerie online is a great idea as long as you go with a reputable company. If you check resource links, you will see sites I deem reputable.

Another reason is the cost. Lingerie cost can add up quickly. That is why I am a big fan of Myriad Lingerie. They have some great deals and carry stock. You never have to worry about them emailing you back and saying “sorry this item is out of stock” because they have an up to date system. This is why I like Yandy as well.

Many women also find it hard to find a “good time” to wear lingerie. Guess what? Always is a good time! Honestly, when men were polled, the most “awkward” or unpredictable times were the best times where they caught their partner in lingerie. It is the surprise factor that really makes it exciting for men.

You will also here me talk about confidence a lot in these posts. Lingerie does bring some extra confidence to the table, but it takes confidence to put the lingerie on in the first place. If you have any doubts about if he will find you sexy in it, flaws about your body, etc. you just need to remember one thing: He chose you and he is with you! He likes what you bring to the relationship; personality, mind, body- everything. If he didn’t, he would simply find someone else, period. Get over it and have some fun!

So Why Not Wear Lingerie Often?

Ok, so those are some pretty good reasons not to wear lingerie too often, but the results from wearing lingerie are very favorable! So why wouldn’t you? Here are some perks to wearing lingerie.

1. You are able to feel sexy and seduce your man other than the normal (although still successful) attempts.
2. It is fun to dress in lingerie for women because it gives them a “power” in the bedroom.
3. If choosing to dress in costume, it allows a woman to be someone else for a brief moment. It is creative and engages a partner.
4. It keeps him asking: “What’s Next?”
5. Wearing lingerie helps your sex life go from drab to fab!
6. If you are not at your goal in weight, it might help motivate you to get in better shape to the place you want to be at.

These are just a few of the wonderful perks of wearing lingerie. Just imagine, your partner coming home from work and you are in a little lingerie piece. Do you think he is going to remember the horrible day he just had at work? No, his eyes and attention will be glued on you!

Take the time to treat yourself as well as your partner. Although it is not the only important factor, keeping the sex life interesting and alive is a key to a good relationship.