Q: I want to get some lingerie to wear for my boyfriend, but I am not sure on what to get. Can you offer any suggestions? He is a quiet guy overall and not very sexual in general. 

Answer:

Most guys are pretty sexual at their core but some simply aren’t thinking about it. Guys tend to be a lot more single track minded

 than women are in general -for a lot of us it is hard to think about more than one thing at a time. Getting something that is going to make it obvious to him what you want and put the thought in his mind is likely to stimulate the situation.